Your wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime event that you want to be perfect in every way. From the decorations and flowers to the music and food, everything should be absolutely perfect. Your groomsmen do play a vital part in making your wedding day memorable, but they can also make mistakes that could impact your special day! While it’s natural for groomsmen to be so excited and have fun at your wedding, they need to understand their responsibilities and the importance of being reliable and respectful!

Here are three very common mistakes your groomsmen make and how they can be avoided:

1. Not taking their responsibilities seriously

Being  a groomsman is a lot more than just wearing a nice suit and showing up on the wedding day! Groomsmen have responsibilities that include attending rehearsals, helping with wedding planning, and assisting the groom with any last-minute details. If a groomsman does not take his responsibilities seriously, it can cause stress and frustration for the groom and other members of the wedding party. To avoid this mistake, make sure your groomsmen understand their responsibilities and communicate with them clearly about what you expect from them.

2. Drinking too much

It’s normal to want to celebrate and have a good time at a wedding, but groomsmen should be mindful of their alcohol intake. If a groomsman drinks too much and becomes disruptive or causes problems, it can definitely put a damper on the festivities and ruin the mood of the wedding. To avoid this mistake, encourage your groomsmen to drink responsibly and consider having a designated driver or transportation arranged to get everyone safely home!

3. Being late

Groomsmen are an important part of the wedding party, and their absence will be noticeable. If a groomsman is consistently late or does not show up at all, it can cause stress for the groom and other members of the wedding party, and even throw off the schedule of the wedding day. To avoid this mistake, make sure your groomsmen understand the importance of being punctual and communicate clearly with them about the schedule and timeline of the wedding day.

The same way that your groomsmen can affect your wedding day by making a mistake they can also impact it positively!

Here are 5 things your groomsmen should be doing that can make the big day a lot smoother:

1. Try on shoes

Make sure your groomsmen are trying on their shoes before the big day! Them being uncomfortable will not help minimize the stress on the big day!

2. Bring a second shirt

This ons is short and sweet, if you or one of your groomsmen is a sweater make sure to bring a second shirt to change into!

3. Stick to the dress code

If the bride and groom have set a dress code for the wedding, it’s important to stick to it. Whether it’s formal, semi-formal, or casual, make sure you understand the dress code and plan your outfit accordingly.

Now it’s time get your groomsmen ready for the big day!

Your groomsmen play an important role in making your wedding day special and memorable! Making a mistake or doing something to enhance your wedding can have quite a big impact! Make sure to set your expectations and make sure everyone is onboard!

And hey, when you’re ready to start planning your wedding day, we’d love to guide you through the process so you can enjoy your day to the fullest. Get in touch today!

Photo Credit: Calli Crawford Photography